Masturbating is nothing but sexually stimulating yourself and/or performing the act on yourself till you reach orgasm. One of the safest ways of having sex, female masturbation is in no way wrong. In fact, it is a better tool at discovering yourself with the right amount of caution.
You will soon know how you like being touched in order to heighten your pleasure, which will give a good input to your sex life with a partner later. It also avoids having STD’s or other such irritants that can be passed on through unsafe sex.
Masturbation helps to relieve stresses and body aches. It is also said that masturbation helps in relieving the doer of migraine pain. It can be addictive as it relieves you of sexual tension that you may have because you don’t have a partner yet or because you prefer it that way!
Many girls like to have sex toys like dildos and vibrators as part of their masturbation routine and some prefer their hands and attractive theme based costumes as a part of the play. Every girl at some point in their life has felt the sensations that masturbation provides, either through the act itself or through sex.
For a lot of women, masturbation is something that they know nothing about. Now obviously, this isn’t something to feel ashamed about because it isn’t as simple for us down there as it is for guys. For them, it’s as simple because its pretty straight forward; “it feels good when I touch my penis”. But for us women, a lot is happening down there and because of that most of us might not know how to masturbate or have ever been interested in it. Men prefer to touch their penis or rub it, whereas women like stimulation around the clitoris, which is the sensitive part just above their vagina.
But since you’ve clicked on this article, I’m thinking that you are intrigued and want to know how it is done. Well fear not, because we have got for you a hands-on (pun intended) guide to solo sex i.e. female masturbation, btw, how many of you spell it like female mastrubation?
Don’t Take This as A Task
The first rule of female masturbating is that you do not go in thinking that it is a task that you have to achieve or finish.
This attitude doesn’t work here because masturbating is a process for which you need time, you need to feel relaxed and not rushed, and you need to be sure that you have privacy i.e. nobody is going to suddenly walk in on you.
At least in the beginning, you need a no-pressure chill vibe, so turn off your phone, put on some sexy music that turns you on, and take your time.
Use Some Lube
Lube helps make the act a little easier and comfortable even if you have enough natural vaginal lubrication. So, go ahead and take a little bit of it on your index and middle finger, and massage it onto your clit, which is the bean shaped thing at the top of you vagina, and you inner labia, which is the folds inside the bigger folds of you vagina.
You Don’t Need to Start By Going To Town On Your Clit
What we mean by this is, opt for a more playful caressing, like running your fingers along the sides of your clit up to the entrance of your vagina. This will help in getting the blow flowing down there and increase pleasure and arousal. Also, this way you will know what works for you and accordingly you can keep going back to it.
Using a Vibrator Is Optional
The chances of getting an orgasm is higher when you use a toy, but it is always recommended to start with your fingers during the initial stages.
This way, you get a better understanding of your body and if you are interested in partner sex in the future, it becomes comparable as well. So, you would be able to guide your partner and tell them what it is that you like or how fast or slow he should go.
Use Visual Aids If You Need Them
To be able to pleasure yourself, you need to not only touch your genitals but also engage your brain. So, read some erotica whilst touching yourself, or think of sexy times from your past, or check out some sexy images online; whatever your heart fancies.
‘Ahhhh! Masturbating feels so relaxing. It satiates my sexual urge, when I get uncontrollable.’ But, you know what girls, when I watched this video I was quite surprised. My mind opened up to many facts that I wasn’t aware of.
Female Masturbation, Here Are The Facts
- An undergrad student’s study revealed in 2002 that 44% of women admitted to masturbating
- Women on an average agreed that they masturbated at least 4.7 times in a month.
- You enjoy lubricating with your saliva while masturbating? Well, that can lead to vaginal bacteria, which can increase the risk to yeast infection
- This one is drop dead interesting. Freak man.
Doctors had a unique way to treat hysteria. They used to masturbate women. And the vibrator was invented to keep the doctor’s hand from getting tired. Yes, necessity is the mother of invention
- Women with higher level of testosterone, are interested a lot in masturbating
- This one is funny; in Japan it’s illegal to manufacture sex toys that are of the shape of a penis. Guys, then what shape should a vibrator be ideally? Well, another invention hit the market of sex toys. The rabbit toy was invented. Woah! Rabbit toy, that is freaking funny.
You will know a lot about these facts if you watch the video. Play it and know more.
How Not to Get Caught Masturbating?
Masturbation requires you to have a comfortable environment to enable you to have peace and quiet and for you to be able to perform. If you have issues having your own time, room, space, or privacy then it is best that you end up doing your stuff in the night under the blanket or in the safer confines of your bathroom.
Bathroom gives the liberty of locking your door, the most preferred place to masturbate as it enables you to do the act at any time of the day and with the added stimulants of the warm shower and others.
One needs to ensure that they use effectively clean hands and equipment while masturbating so that they don’t contract any infections. Another caution to be taken is that they keep the sounds (groans and moans!) to a minimum or use low volume headphones while watching erotic movies or videos for stimulation. It would be very embarrassing to have someone listen in on your private affair.
Many people live with their parents, or have roommates, or siblings that don’t allow them to have their private time. In such cases it is best that you respect their presence and look for other options. Options like, locking yourself in the bathroom where you would not be disturbed or waiting for another time when they are not around entirely.
The last thing you’d want is for someone to come in to say hello when you were busy having a sexploration with your body!!! It makes sense investing in a lock for your door. If you don’t have one, wait for the night when everyone is asleep. And if you can’t wait, hit the shower!